Your life tends to create circumsta

Your life tends to create circumstances to which you must constantly adapt. This makes it difficult for you to focus on one thing at a time. You may spread yourself too thin, unable to concentrate long enough to gain the necessary experience or expertise. You may find yourself bouncing from one thing to another without actually completing anything, unaware that completion is what's needed.

You may already be doing pretty well in life, but there is no telling just how much you can accomplish with focus. It is always lack of concentration which prevents 9s from seeing their higher potential. It is up to you to recognize your specialty, (your passion), and give it the focus it deserves.

Your life is often cluttered with useless projects, people, possessions, and you have a tendency to waste your time, energy, opportunities and resources on unimportant matters. You may have to occasionally stand back from the ongoing dramas of your life and assess any situations or relationships that need to be weeded out and ended.

In order to find the truth, you will have to begin at the beginning and go back to the very source - the origins of the matter - back to the past to release yourself from unexpressed emotions which are holding you there. Recognize where you are torturing yourself emotionally over matters you can do absolutely nothing about. When you realize that this is what you so often do to yourself, it will be easier to accept the past and move on to a more comfortable reality.

Ultimately, you are learning how to let go. This can be a painful process until you understand its necessity. You may question how it is possible to be the loving and generous person you know you are when you may have to hurt yourself or others in the process of letting go. The life of a 9 is never simple. Very often, the people you think you may hurt actually need to be released so that their lives can unfold in a way that is natural for them. For you, partings are such sorrowful and frightening occasions, only to find, in retrospect, that it was the best thing for all concerned.

On the other hand, by developing a greater tolerance for the individuality of others, the need to end certain relationships need never arise. You must learn to accept the diversity of humanity and enjoy the richness of loving relationships in which common goals take the place of ego. It is hard for those who love you to share you with the world, as they must often do. The least you can do is to allow them to be who they are rather than who you want them to be. You can be frustrated with those who do not live up to your high ideals, but your disappointment is actually with your own intolerance. You may think that tolerance is one of your greater attributes, but this is a misunderstanding since we only tolerate that which we do not like. Acceptance is the key. That means that you must stop judging yourself, and others.

9 is the number of giving, and the most precious gift you can bestow on anyone is your acceptance of them just as they are. This in no way implies lowering your standards or putting up with ongoing adverse behavior. You must stay true to yourself and your principles. But your vision is a unique one and you cannot always expect others to see life as you see it. If you try to control other people, or if you are overly possessive, irresponsible, unemotional, or destructive, the 9 energy will work against you dramatically.