Prophet Muhammad lived and grew up

Prophet Muhammad lived and grew up in the tradition of polygamy, but opted for monogamy. He married Sin Khadijah and they lived together happily for 28 years until she passed away. The joy of the couple inspires millions of couples who say a prayer referring to the Prophet and his wife in their marriage ceremony. There were enough reasons for the Prophet to practice polygamy: He was capable of being fair since he was a prophet, he was a descendant of noted Quraisy figure, sympathetic and good looking, a respected figure in society, charismatic religious leader, and his wife Khadijah was not able to give him a son. But he was undeterred. For Prophet Muhammad, Khadijah was not mere sleeping companion, but colleague, discussion partner, a shoulder to cry on, best friend and soul mate.
The death of Khadijah was a huge ordeal for Muhammad that the year of her death was immortalized in the history of Islam as "amul azmi" (the year of grief). For the rest of his life, Prophet Muhammad always mentioned the kindheartedness and compassion of the woman he really loved. Three years after Khadijah passed away, Muhammad was faced with huge responsibility of developing missionary endeavor to Yastrib and outside Arab Peninsula. The society was divided into dozens of tribes, forcing Muhammad to build communication to support his struggle, and marriage was a strategic marketing tool. That was why he married several women, but this historical perspective is often missing in the analysis of polygamy. Compare to traditional jurisprudence view, the Code of Law is more progressive by stating that polygamy can only be legal through court permission. But court permits polygamy with conditions: 1) That the wife is unable to carry out obligations; 2) the wife is disabled or suffering incurable disease; 3) the wife cannot bear children. All conditions allowing polygamy is only seen from husband's perspective and does not consider the interest of women at all.

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Nabi Muhammad hidup dan dibesarkan dalam tradisi poligami, tetapi memilih untuk monogami. Ia menikah dengan dosa Khadijah dan mereka tinggal bersama bahagia selama 28 tahun sampai ia meninggal dunia. Sukacita pasangan mengilhami jutaan pasangan yang mengacu pada nabi dan istrinya dalam upacara perkawinan mereka berdoa. Ada cukup alasan untuk nabi amalan poligami: dia adalah mampu menjadi adil karena dia adalah seorang nabi, ia adalah keturunan mencatat tokoh Quraisy, simpatik dan tampan, seorang tokoh yang disegani di masyarakat, pemimpin agama karismatik, dan Khadijah, istrinya itu tidak mampu memberinya seorang putra. Tapi ia tidak terpengaruh. Muhammad nabi, Khadijah itu tidak hanya tidur pendamping, tapi kolega, mitra diskusi, bahu untuk menangis, teman terbaik dan jodoh.The death of Khadijah was a huge ordeal for Muhammad that the year of her death was immortalized in the history of Islam as "amul azmi" (the year of grief). For the rest of his life, Prophet Muhammad always mentioned the kindheartedness and compassion of the woman he really loved. Three years after Khadijah passed away, Muhammad was faced with huge responsibility of developing missionary endeavor to Yastrib and outside Arab Peninsula. The society was divided into dozens of tribes, forcing Muhammad to build communication to support his struggle, and marriage was a strategic marketing tool. That was why he married several women, but this historical perspective is often missing in the analysis of polygamy. Compare to traditional jurisprudence view, the Code of Law is more progressive by stating that polygamy can only be legal through court permission. But court permits polygamy with conditions: 1) That the wife is unable to carry out obligations; 2) the wife is disabled or suffering incurable disease; 3) the wife cannot bear children. All conditions allowing polygamy is only seen from husband's perspective and does not consider the interest of women at all.

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Nabi Muhammad hidup dan dibesarkan dalam tradisi poligami, tetapi memilih untuk monogami. Ia menikah Sin Khadijah dan mereka hidup bersama bahagia selama 28 tahun sampai dia meninggal. Sukacita pasangan menginspirasi jutaan pasangan yang berdoa mengacu pada Nabi dan istrinya dalam upacara pernikahan mereka. Ada cukup alasan bagi Nabi untuk berlatih poligami: Dia mampu menjadi adil karena ia adalah seorang nabi, dia adalah keturunan mencatat Quraisy angka, simpatik dan tampan, tokoh yang dihormati dalam masyarakat, tokoh agama kharismatik, dan istrinya Khadijah tidak mampu memberinya seorang putra. Tapi ia tidak terpengaruh. Untuk Nabi Muhammad, Khadijah tidak pendamping hanya tidur, tapi rekan, mitra diskusi, bahu untuk menangis, sahabat dan jodoh.
Kematian Khadijah adalah cobaan besar bagi Muhammad bahwa tahun kematiannya diabadikan dalam sejarah Islam sebagai "Amul azmi" (tahun kesedihan). Selama sisa hidupnya, Nabi Muhammad selalu menyebutkan kebaikan hati dan kasih sayang dari wanita yang benar-benar mencintai. Tiga tahun setelah Khadijah meninggal, Muhammad dihadapkan dengan tanggung jawab yang besar untuk mengembangkan usaha misionaris ke Yastrib dan luar Semenanjung Arab. Masyarakat dibagi menjadi puluhan suku, memaksa Muhammad untuk membangun komunikasi untuk mendukung perjuangannya, dan pernikahan adalah alat pemasaran strategis. Itulah sebabnya ia menikahi beberapa wanita, tapi perspektif sejarah ini sering hilang dalam analisis poligami. Bandingkan dengan pandangan hukum tradisional, Kitab Hukum lebih progresif dengan menyatakan bahwa poligami hanya dapat hukum melalui izin pengadilan. Tetapi pengadilan mengijinkan poligami dengan kondisi: 1) Bahwa istri tidak dapat menjalankan kewajibannya; 2) istri dinonaktifkan atau menderita penyakit yang tak tersembuhkan; 3) istri tidak dapat melahirkan anak. Semua kondisi yang memungkinkan poligami hanya dilihat dari perspektif suami dan tidak mempertimbangkan kepentingan perempuan sama sekali.