Desi's Sun in Virgo and Lisa's Sun

Desi's Sun in Virgo and Lisa's Sun in Virgo

Both of you are prone to have fits of perfectionism, and at such times you are extremely critical and difficult to please. You may vacillate between extreme neatness and sloppiness, or be very particular about some things but very casual or even sloppy in handling other areas of life. Because each of you has an eye for detail and can be very skilled and exacting when you put your mind to it, you have the potential to work together very well in any area that requires extreme care and attention. There is the problem, however, that your combined perfectionism may make both of you dissatisfied with anything that you attempt. Both of you like to express your love for someone by doing practical things for that person, and both of you enjoy helping or serving others.

Desi's Moon in Aquarius and Lisa's Moon in Pisces

Your emotional rhythms and temperaments are rather different. Lisa is gentle, non-competitive, somewhat passive, and has a need to withdraw or 'get away from it all' on a regular basis. Desi, on the other hand, needs involvement in the world and enjoys being in the flow of contemporary life.

More significantly, Lisa is very sensitive emotionally and psychically, and is a deeply feeling person, while Desi responds more rationally and intellectually to people and situations. Desi has strong humanitarian or idealistic impulses, but frequently lacks empathy in personal situations, whereas Lisa is so tender- hearted that others sometimes take advantage.

Desi is too cool, emotionally detached, and mental to suit Lisa sometimes. Desi needs intellectual stimulation and companionship, and is rather uncomfortable with excessive displays of feeling and Lisa's emotionality in general. Also, Lisa is highly intuitive, whereas Desi needs scientific evidence or support of the things that Lisa takes on faith. Desi questions Lisa's hunches and emotional or psychic impressions. However, Desi can also help Lisa get some distance and clarity about the emotional situations that Lisa gets so immersed in.

Chapter 2
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together

Sun Mutually Aspects Jupiter

Optimism, enthusiasm, and good will are dominant themes in your relationship. You love to explore new possibilities, plan for the future, and expand your horizons together. You are likely to travel, speculate, and philosophize together. Your shared optimism and enthusiasm can certainly bring success, but you may also encourage each other to speculate foolishly, encourage each other to pursue a path that ends up delivering less than was initially promised, and squander resources at times.

Mercury Mutually Aspects Uranus

You inspire each other to think along new, creative lines and together you can devise very original and unusual ideas, products, and plans. Be wary of the tendency to be very impulsive when making joint decisions. Sometimes the two of you abruptly seize an opportunity, realizing later that you were swept away by the excitement and novelty of the idea, and the idea is not that practical or realistic.

Mercury Mutually Aspects Pluto

As discussed below, there is a deep, probing quality to your relationship. If your relationship is long-lasting, you are likely to embark on some kind of investigative research in a scientific, historical, or psychological field - unearthing the hidden roots of a situation.

Venus Mutually Aspects Mars

There is a great deal of magnetism, warmth, affection, and strong feelings between you. Your friendship may run hot and cold, but it is never lukewarm. You are creatively inspired, invigorated, and stimulated by one another, and you feel more alive in each other's presence. Demanding too much or wanting too much from one another can be a problem, however.

Desi's Sun conjunct Lisa's Sun orb 0° 30'

You strongly identify with each other and are very much alike in import